I’m not one to flirt, probably because I can’t. Seriously, I suck at flirting. It makes me feel awkward and out of my comfort zone. When I see a person of interest I usually wait and see what happens. But I don’t really make any effort to get that persons attention. Lately though, I’ve been trying out this new thing I call “The Cojones”. It’s basically not over analyzing a situation with what ifs. What if she doesn’t talk back, what if she doesn’t find me attractive, what if blablabla you name it. It’s not giving a flying fuck no matter what the outcome is. So, whenever I see a girl I find attractive and I want to chitchat, make out or whatever with I just act upon that feeling. And I must say, it works, it really does. A couple of weeks ago I went vintage shopping and I was drawn to a girl who worked there. I asked for a pen, wrote down my number and gave it to her. Than we have the colleague-thingy which is still kinda going on (Like-A-Boss post) and the whole Aruba matter.
But I think that I might have pulled the biggest “The Cojones” move thus far, for me that is. We had a party yesterday and I was having a ball, dancing and drinking with my friends when a couple hours later my rainbow friend joined us in the festivities with a friend of hers. One I’ve never seen before and well she was all kinds of yes! I continued dancing and having a blast when I suddenly got the urge to just kiss her. Without any warning signs or any sort of heads up that I was about to kiss her I walked up to her, grabbed her face and kissed her. Before I knew it we were making out on the dance floor. And it was not your average shabby make out session, you know the very drunk, not that charming tongue touching. No, it was quite sensual and not hasty at all. Well, today my friend told me that just a couple of days ago they had a conversation in which her friend said that she could never imagine herself kissing a girl. Even though I usually go for the straights (no drama, no strings attached), I really thought she was gay. Though I do think this move was kinda borderline douche, I’m quite proud of myself that I just did it and that “The Cojones” once again proofed to be a winning move.
P.S. Yeah I know, I know that gif is screaming d-bag. Apologies.